月度归档：2019年03月

How to improve base level of happiness

1、Self Perception Theory 。 To cope with , but not to avoid

How to become an optimistism

1、Take actions,take risks ,Fail to learn and learn to fail. Give the permission to fail ,
Dare to lose one’s foot momentarily , but not to dare is to lose oneself .

2、Power of imagination

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Achievement without fulfillment is the ultimate failure “- Tony Robbins

Have your even come across someone who knows exactly what they want out of life ? Anything they say,they mean and will quickly act on. They seem confident ,eager,excited and downright passionate. You can just feel energy. What impression did that give you ? Chances are you were experiencing the power of Congruency.

Achievement only takes you so far. You can achieve over and over again ,but if you aren’t achieving the things that actually matter to you , it won’t be long lasting .

Seeking make money may make you feel good for moments in time , but seeking to help others in a way that only you can ,will last a lifetime. It is not about what you do, it is about why you do it and who do you become while doing it. That is where lasting happiness happens.

Be confident that the summoning the courage to go after your dream, even if follow by a temporary failure, still makes you a stronger man. We all have the dreams, be one of the people who make theirs a reality.

Scared of the uncomfortable, but freedom comes a price , you have to learn it . If it feels uncomfortable, then you are doing thing right ! To really have a shot at living on your terms,the only choice is to learn to love it. Growth begins outside of your comfort zone. That is where the magic happens.

  • Starting a business initially exposes life’s darkest doubts,but it is the price you pay to do what you love.
  • It is intimidating to ask someone on a date ,but it is the only way you will find your soulmate
  • Switching to a healthy diet is brutal at first , but is the foundation of an energy rich ,beaming life.

All the growth comes from stepping into the unknown and trying new things. They will be uncomfortable . You will find a thousand of reasons to put it off , you will think of quitting,but that is what makes experience that much more amazing. It takes courage to try new things, it takes courage to blaze your own trail. But now you know your worst scenario is not as bad as it seems , go for it .. because freedom ( and more importantly, fulfillment ) awaits.

精英教育阻碍个人成长

精英教育下的个人会将选择追求财富、资历、声誉当成天经地义，但这样的选择是一种行为的惯性； 精英教育下的个人严重缺乏对自己的洞察力，因此无法了解以上的选择是否出于个人真实的欲望。
 
他们按部就班的生活，缺乏新生活的想象力，在内心深处，他们也缺乏勇气和自由来创造自己的道路创建自己的生活，因而他们不过是一群在终生竞争的集中营里茫然的生还者。
 
他们不清楚自己为什么而奋斗时，他是迷茫的，也将得不到满足感。